Enderts Beach and other Secluded Beaches

Hollywood actor's seed.?

I am the son of this Hollywood actor in his mid-40s right now. He got just got his kid with this beautiful Hollywood actress in her early 30's. I really want to meet him and tell him that i do exist; his son, but my mother won't let me because she said it will make controversy and things won't be the same again for me if the media will find out. My mom and him met on this secluded private beach island here in the Philippines where he used to go before. We met before but i was not introduced to him. I'm already in my 20's this time and he still don't know that I do exist in his life. Do i still need to let him know? Does introducing myself is a good idea?. I want to straighten things here. Me and my mom were hiding for so long. I pity my mother everytime she saw this man on TV, my father who abandoned her. I was raised by my mother alone. It's just so heartbreaking for me. Please help...

Public Comments

1. If he don't know, is it his fault or your mom's. let him know.
2. Send him a letter and tell him who you and your mother are and let it go from there. At least you might feel better by telling him.
3. You need to do it in private and fully understand that the last thing he's going to want is you and him, and this 'scandal' splashed all over the tabloids. Sounds your a little jealous of the situation, which is understandable. But don't let that affect your decision. You could end up more hurt and empty then your are now. Also, since as you mentioned at the end, your mom is both hurt and STILL reluctant to meet have you meet him, consider why: - does not want him back in her life - does not want to be embarrassed in your community about 'sleeping with some actor' etc. - does not want the intrusion of the media - IS AFRAID THAT IF THING WENT WELL BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR FATHER, YOULL ABANDON/FORGET HER There's a lot to think about. This shouldnt be about you being curious and jealous. Whatever you do, think things through thoroughly and consider how everyone's lives could change for better or worse.