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My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me, But I Still Love Her...Please Help?

We had been dating for two years. She's just moved and started college up in Salem, and I decided to visit on our second year dating anniversary. The last day I was up there, she brought up the subject about our relationship. We both agreed that God wasn't a priority, and we decided to take a break so we may grow in God, seperately. It hasn't even been a month since then and she's crushing on another guy already...She lives in Salem, OR and I live in Crescent City, CA...that's a brutally long distance. She's been telling me recently that she's uncertain we'll get back together. So, I'm trapped in a small town filled with nothing but two years of memories with this girl, whom I still love...and I don't know what to do...because I feel I can't get over her...I want to marry this girl...what should I do?

Public Comments

1. Long distance relationships seldom last....she actually did you a favor though it hurts right now..... It is over. You are not going to marry this girl. She doesn't want you anymore. Accept it - you don't have to like it. You need to get on with your life and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Hang with some friends and see what happens. Crescent City isn't THAT small is it? Get out and do something (anything) get your body busy and the mind won't have time to mope around. BTW this gir may call you and still want to be friends...don't bother, she will just be trying not to feel guilty about dumping you. Just cut it off and get moving.