Enderts Beach and other Secluded Beaches

My husband is flirting with another woman, what should I do?

He met her at some party or other, and then they agreed to go to this Jolly Roger Hotel, Smugglers Island, Leathercombe Bay, Cornwall - now I understand why he was so persistent and wanted to come here (I wanted to go to Italy where we had out honeymoon). Patrick is very handsome, and Arlena Marshall is, too, men can't get their eyes off her, and she was an actress, and men are constantly going crazy about her. She is married, but it does not bother her. They are constantly having little conversations, giving each other little looks, and go on boating together, meet each other on secluded beaches, swim together, and when I talk to Patrick, he becomes angry and says that they are just friends, and that I am very jealous, and that he should be allowed to have friends of any gender. What should I do?

Public Comments

1. Flirt with other men.
2. get back at him and flirt with other men to show him how it feels to have that situain happen on him
3. If his reaction is defensive, it indicates guilt. Guilt only exists when there is something to be guilty of. I would be worried about his behaviour - I mean, if you asked him about it, and he acted 'normal', it would be okay. But brushing something off "oh it's nothing" or getting defensive "who are you to tell me who my friends should be" are signs of guilt. I would try to have a conversation with him - don't accuse him, or be defensive, just try to be calm about it - but talk to him about how it makes you feel. If he cares about you, as a husband should, he should listen to you and understand why you are worried. If he refuses to listen - it's a bad sign. The fact that she's married doesn't really mean much.... it won't stop people from doing you know what. Alternatively, as suggested above, you could get a man-friend, maybe act the same way with him as your husband does with her. But that's vindictive, immature, and is a bit Hollywood style (ie, won't work in real life), as tempted as it would be to do it (I certainly would be tempted). I would also try to go on vacation together, just you and him, somewhere far, where there will only be two of you. Maybe camping, maybe a lodge in the mountains, as isolated as possible. Try to remember what brought the two of you together in the first place - reconnect! He may be with her just because she a) feeds his ego (oh, hot girl likes me) and b) looking for new, 'fresh' experiences. This is unfortunately normal in marriages, when you get a little tired of the 'same old'. So reconnect! Get the spark back (easy to say, I know). You can check out the nearest book store for some ideas. Good luck....
4. Evil!
5. Just show him you're jealous. Something to throw the girl with a dirty look or making fun of him a bit, for him to catch on to knows that you're cares.
6. Run away Christine! Something tells me this will end in murder.
7. If I were you I'd have a good and firm conversation with my husband explaining how his relationship with this woman makes me feel and why it is not acceptable to you. But may I please ask what is this question doing in the Books & Authors section????
8. You should watch out for a little man with an egg-shaped head and a moustache who is staying at the hotel, you can't get away with anything when he is about. Do you reall think you can outsmart Hercule Poirot?